If you are curious to try anal with your partner, you should communicate the interest. If you do not know how to start the conversation, try to watch an anal scene together to break the ice. Communicating desires and fantasies with a lover is a great bonding experience and allows the relationship to prosper and deepen. This conversation should allow both of you to express concerns and boundaries before diving into the world of anal pleasures.
Pleasure for All
Both men and women can experience GREAT pleasures and sexual satisfaction via anal stimulation. The female vagina shares a wall with the rectum. The sensitive nerves and receptors can be pleasurably stimulated through this wall allowing for G-spot stimulation and orgasm. Men of all sexual orientations enjoy anal stimulation. The prostate, or P-Spot, in considered the male G-spot. It is located within the rectum, up towards the testicles. The prostate is full of nerves that are sensitive to ANY kind of contact. Stimulating the prostate can provoke intense orgasms. The key to amazing anal play is knowing how to get started.
Starting small is best for gaining experience in the anus without being too overwhelming. Use a finger or a small/narrow butt plug for your first experience. Be sure that the stimulator is well lubricated. The anus does not provide any natural lubrication. A generous amount of lube is essential. We carry a variety of anal lubricants. Many of them contain a desensitizer to prevent potential pain. Silicone based lubricants will last longer and cause less friction. ALWAYS start by SLOWLY and GENTLY inserting the stimulator. NEVER FORCE its entrance or direction; the penetrant will be guided by the body for maximum comfort.
When you have tried and enjoyed anal stimulation you can move on to bigger and better things. We offer several kinds of vibrating toys for anal play including beads and plugs.
What are the different types of anal sex toys?
Luxury dildos can be used as anal toys so long as they have a flared base. They are meant to move back and forth to achieve orgasm but are not hands free. Dildos can be used with a hand or a harness. They are available in a wide variety of sizes, materials, textures, and colours.
Smoother dildos are best for anal play. For beginners, silicone dildos are recommended since they are more flexible.
B plugs are meant to stay put thanks to the anal muscles gripping the neck of the toy. These anal toys create a sensation of fullness without having to move it back-and-forth. They have a small narrow neck that expands to a flared base.
During orgasm, anal muscles contract along with the muscles of the vagina or penis. Therefore, plugs intensify the pleasure. Since the wall between the vagina and rectum is thin, many women like to use plugs during sex.
B plug sizes range from about the size of a pinkie finger to a fist and are available in silicone, glass & metal.
They are a string of beads that graduate in size and are pulled out close towards orgasm. They stimulate the anal opening as it opens and closes around each bead. This feeling can induce orgasm or the removal of beads during orgasm makes the orgasm even better.
Prostate Massagers and Stimulators
These sex toys for men are specifically designed to massage the prostate. Some prostrate massagers vibrate for an added sensation.
Anal intercourse can be just as safe as vaginal sex, but precautions must be made. Adequate lubrication is required to reduce friction inside the rectum. Excessive friction can cause intense pain and may cause internal damage. Consult your doctor if you have further anxiety prior to anal exploration.
Hands should be washed, and fingernails should be trimmed prior to activity. Any object being inserted into the body should be cleaned and dried according to the item’s care instructions. The penis and surrounding area should be cleansed and dried prior to penetration as well. Do not insert anything into the vagina that was used in the anus without proper cleaning. Bacteria maybe transferred which may cause vaginal discomfort or infection. Cleanse and rinse EVERYTHING used in the anus after activity. It is a good idea to be rid of bowels an hour before anal activity. This will optimize comfort levels during the experience and will help prevent unintentional expelling. Anal enemas or douches may also be used for this intention. Wet toilet paper wipes are perfect to ensure full cleanliness around the anus and during sexual activity.