Floggers and Whips

Once considered a taboo topic, the use of whips and floggers for bondage play is becoming increasingly popular as people realize how much enjoyment these products can bring. Bondage whips and spanking floggers can be used to create just the right amount of pain and also anticipation that will put your partner in a highly receptive state. You can be in complete control over every aspect of your partner’s pleasure, from how hard you spank them to the body parts you spank them on. Even the sound of the spanking whip is something that can get many of us tingling.

What Is a Flogger?

A flogger is a sex toy with a handle and several leather or rubber tendrils. The strands can be used to gently drape over a lover’s skin or for firmer whacks. When a flogger lands hard against your skin, you’ll feel a strong thudding sensation. Floggers are usually used in BDSM sexual relationships and, as you’ll soon find out, are a great tool to introduce yourself in the world of soft light bondage. As it is usually accompanied by the use of either ropes or handcuffs.

How Do You Use a Sex Whip?

Most whips have a wrist loop. You wear it around your wrist, then grip the handle. This helps keep the toy in place. You should take a few practice swings in the air to get a feel for wielding it.

The biggest question is what position you’ll be in to deliver the blows. Your partner can stand with their hands above their head facing a wall. They can either stick their butt out toward you or stand straight. You can stand behind them and deliver the smacks. You can also drape them across your lap for an up close spanking.

If you’re using these BDSM toys for the first time, make sure to check in with your partner. What may seem like a light smack to one person may feel over the top to another. As with any BDSM play, it’s important to have a safe word. Often, people use red and yellow. If either person says the word “red,” play stops immediately. If one of you says “yellow,” you proceed with less intensity. This gives both partners a way out if they want to stop for any reason. You want to make your safe word short and easy to remember.