What Is Squirting and How You Can Make It Happen
Squirting, also known as female ejaculation, is a phenomenon that has been surrounded by myths and misconceptions for a long time. Many people, especially men, have wondered what it is and how to make it happen. In this blog post, we will delve into the topic of squirting and explore its origin, the science behind it, and tips on how to make it happen.
Origin of Squirting
The concept of squirting has been around for centuries, with references to it being found in ancient texts. In Greek and Indian art, there are depictions of female figures squirting during sexual intercourse. However, it was not until the 1980s that squirting gained mainstream attention with the release of adult films featuring it.
Science Behind Squirting
The debate about whether squirts are real or just a myth has been ongoing for a long time. However, scientific studies have proven that squirting is a real phenomenon. The fluid expelled during squirting is not urine, as many people believe, but rather a clear, odorless liquid produced by the Skene’s glands, also known as the female prostate. These glands are located near the urethra, and when stimulated, they can produce a fluid that is similar to male ejaculate.
How to Make It Happen
Now that we have established what squirting is, let’s discuss how it can be achieved. Firstly, it is important to note that squirting is not achievable for all women, and it is not a measure of sexual pleasure or prowess. Every woman’s body is unique, and squirting is a natural response that some may experience during sexual arousal and stimulation.
It’s important to first get highly aroused and then increase pressure on the G-spot while also stimulating the clitoris. Some find that hard, fast and prolonged G-spot stimulation at high levels of arousal is the key to squirting. However, this can be difficult for those with mobility or strength issues, making sex toys a helpful tool. As you approach squirting, you may feel a sensation of needing to pee or the urge to push out with your pelvic muscles. Follow that feeling and keep up the G-spot stimulation, and you may just experience squirting. It’s also important to note that squirting and orgasms do not always happen at the same time and can occur before, during, or after an orgasm or even without one at all.
Here are some tips on how to make squirting happen:
- Relax and be in the right mindset. Squirting is more likely to happen when a woman is relaxed and feels comfortable with her partner. So, it is important to create a safe and comfortable space for both partners.
- Build up arousal. Slow and steady stimulation can help build up arousal and increase the chances of squirting. Take your time and focus on foreplay, such as kissing, touching, and massaging, before moving on to genital stimulation.
- Locate the G-spot. The G-spot is a highly sensitive area in the vagina that, when stimulated, can lead to squirting. It is located on the front wall of the vagina, about two inches in, and characterized by a slightly ribbed texture.
- Use fingers or toys. Once the G-spot is located, it can be stimulated using fingers or toys, such as a curved vibrator. Experiment with different strokes, pressure, and speed to find what works best.
- Incorporate clitoral stimulation. Studies have shown that combining G-spot and clitoral stimulation can lead to more intense orgasms and increase the chances of squirting. So, don’t neglect the clitoris during the process.
- Ask for feedback. Communication is key in any sexual experience, so it’s important to ask for your partner’s feedback and make sure they are comfortable and enjoying the experience. This can also help guide you in what techniques or movements work best for them.
In Conclusion…
Squirting is a natural phenomenon that can be achieved through arousal and stimulation of the G-spot and clitoris. However, it is not a measure of sexual pleasure and should not be the main focus in sexual encounters. The most important thing is to create a safe and comfortable environment for both partners and to communicate openly and honestly. And remember, squirting is not the ultimate goal – pleasure and intimacy should always be the priority.